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Welcome to Grieve with Ease, a podcast where we talk about the many signs of loss and death on each episode, you'll hear from a cross-section of men and women who share how they dealt with loss, found comfort and even humor during what many consider a very dark time. The show is designed to bring comfort, to answer questions and let you know you are not alone. Now, here's your host, Martika Whylly.
Martika Whylly:
Roxanne Dluzak is an energy healer and occupational therapy student. She is an advocate for holistic mental health treatments. Welcome, Roxanne!
Martika Whylly:
Well, thank you for being here on the grieve with ease podcast Roxanne Dulzak and so. Tell us a little bit about what you do with your holistic mental health. You're involved with the mental, sorry, holistic mental health treatments.
Roxanne Dluzak:
Yeah, yeah, so I'm really passionate about energy healing. And for those of you that are unfamiliar with energy healing, it's a little bit difficult to understand right off the bat. I'd say it's more experiential, but I'll do the best I can to explain it so I feel energy under my hands. And then when I do a session with the client, my hands are guided to go wherever my client needs healing. So my clients will say different things, like I feel lighter or I see colors or they'll see visions with their third eye. Another person has told me when I was doing energy healing on someone right next to them, they went to touch the other person and they were burning hot. So it's kind of like everyone has different experiences with the energy healing. And some people, they take it more as a spiritual experience that helps them more with their mental health and just letting go of the past or letting go of different emotions or situations that are tripping them up.
Martika Whylly:
Hmm, interesting. So what made you want to get into energy healing?
Roxanne Dluzak:
Ok, well, it's I struggled a lot with lower back pain right when I was starting at the age of 19. And so I went on basically I went on this whole journey that led me to energy healing. So one of my one of my sister's friends told me I should go to this massage therapist. And I ended up going to that man. And then he was amazing. I feel like he in that session that I first worked with him, he made me laugh and he made me cry. And I walked up off the table and I told myself, I feel like I feel healed. So I stayed in contact with him. And over the years, one day I told him I got another massage from him and I told him, I feel like I have a lot of emotional pain. And so he told me, you know, you should try Reiki like I heard. I hear Reiki is good for that. And I didn't look up Reiki at all. I just kind of put it in my back pocket that I now have this resource I can use. And so I was really, really down and out at a really low point. And so I was pretty desperate to do something, to feel better for my mental health. So I booked a session at a Reiki practitioners office. I did one session with her and ever since then I've been able to feel the energy in my hands. So once that happened, then I was like really freaked out and I was like, oh my gosh, what is this like? I was so intrigued about it. And like, I really like understanding it, having that better connection with the spiritual world because I felt like I was really struggling with my existence and why I am why am I alive and all these big questions. And so this energy healing came to me and it was just validation that there is more than this physical world. And then that's kind of what leads me more into my communication with the other side. But I hope that answered your question to it.
Martika Whylly:
Yeah, it did. And that was a great answer. Well, yeah. I mean, any kind of pain that you don't want experience. I mean, if you can get it through the traditional ways, you try other ways. Right. Because you just I couldn't imagine. I don't like pain. Who does. Right. You just want to get rid of it in the most simplest, easiest way that you can so that you can function better. Right. So how how has the holistic treatments like changed to?
Roxanne Dluzak:
Oh, my gosh, I feel like it's like say it's my mental health because I think because a lot of like what I said a lot of my struggles were like in that existential thinking. And since it provided a connection for the the spiritual room, that really helped to my mind. And then I've also done MDR. It's called Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing. And that's a form of trauma therapy that I did with my therapist. And that was amazing as well. Like so, so amazing. And I actually just read an article about how it's really good for chronic pain.
Martika Whylly:
Could you explain more or what that is? Yeah.
Roxanne Dluzak:
Ok, so it's a little bit long of a process to get first get started with it. So basically there's I think there's like seven or eight steps. And I think the seventh step is when you go back to a traumatic memory and you reprocess it. But when you reprocess that memory, you hang on to either hand buzzer's or with your eyes. You watch two dots move back and forth. So basically what you're doing is you're bilaterally stimulating the brain. So back and forth, the brain is being stimulated and that puts your brain into a similar state of healing as REM sleep. So basically, when you do the reprocessing and you go back to the traumatic memory, you're focusing on how intense this this emotion is. You give it a number and then you mentally go back to this memory. And then through the bilateral stimulation, it feels like magic, to be honest, but like I feel so negative, so emotionally charged and so anxious about a situation. And then it literally was like, this is like a snap of my fingers. And then my brain would start thinking positively about whatever the situation was. So basically what's going on inside the brain is your amygdala, which is part of your limbic system, which is the emotional part of the brain. It connects with your prefrontal cortex, which is like right behind your forehead would. It's more like logical problem solving, rational thinking, reasoning. All of that. So basically, when you're in that heightened emotional state of oh my gosh, I feel really anxious then. So you're in your amygdala, you lose that contact with your prefrontal cortex or it goes down. So this EMDR, it helps to strengthen the relationship between the two so that you can start thinking more logically about a traumatic situation. And then this is your brain fully processing that memory. If your brain hadn't if your brain had processed that memory, it wouldn't feel so triggered about that memory.
Martika Whylly:
Wow. Interesting. That is that is so cool. And it's, you know, this kind of thing. These are the things that fascinate me because there's there's always an answer or an explanation, really, isn't it, to change the way you feel based on how you think and all these other different ways to do it?
Roxanne Dluzak:
Yeah, there's so much like there's so much to it.
Martika Whylly:
Yeah. Yeah. It's all about kind of re rewrite. Sorry, rewiring the brain chemistry. Yeah. So that. Whatever, I mean, I'm sure there's certain things or memories or even situations or songs or something that will trigger a memory in a traumatic one, and then people have like an anxiety attack or they just. I don't know, they just get numb or something, you know, they just kind of I don't know.
Roxanne Dluzak:
Yeah, so it's quite a fight or flight or freeze can kick in.
Martika Whylly:
Yeah, I've been I've been there where I've been so scared. I've been like frozen stiff on the inside. And I'm like, oh my God, I don't know if I can move. Like that's how scared I was on the inside. And then I realized I had to keep going with my life. Even though things are scary, there are certain moments that are kind of scary, but you just kind of still move through them somehow.
Roxanne Dluzak:
Right. Right. Yeah. And I think EMDR is a great tool to help you move through.
Martika Whylly:
Yeah, that's awesome. New techniques. So how how would how can these holistic methods help people who are grieving?
Roxanne Dluzak:
Ok, so this is I feel like the more interesting part of my practice that maybe will give I'm hoping it will give your listeners a bit of peace in those listeners who are looking for that spiritual connection. Hopefully these stories will help to affirm that they haven't lost their loved one completely, that they are still with them. It's just different. But so the very first time I felt a connection with being on the other side, a loved one. Well, it wasn't my loved one, but it was someone else's. So I was in a I was in a. A person who I was caregiving for, I was in their house and I noticed when I was at the dinner table, I noticed a picture of this of this teenager, teenager boy at the dinner table. And so when I went to leave, I was standing outside talking to the clients. And then I just had this feeling that I was back in my parent's house and I saw my sister's car in the driveway. I have two sisters, so I just had this like this feeling and then this sense of knowing, oh, the older sibling is home. And so to my understanding, there was no older sibling. So I went home. I told my landlord and she was like, that's weird. Roxanne, like, you should talk.
Roxanne Dluzak:
You should reach out to them and see what's up. So the next morning I did. And then first the client was kind of confused and it was like, I don't know what you're talking about. And then I was like, wait, who is the boy? Who is that teenager? She was like, Oh, that is my best friend's son. He passed away two years ago in an accident. And I was like, Oh, that. I'm pretty sure that's who I was something. And then I asked her, but what about the older sibling? Do you have an older sibling? And she was like, no, like I would have told you. But there was a really strong connection between the daughter and and the best friend's son that passed away. And she was like, oh, that makes sense. Like, my daughter is really drawn to, like, those kinds of people and are drawn to people in a spiritual sense. People really like her energy and that kind of stuff. And she told me about some of their stories. So that was my first experience, communicating with the other side. And then a more personal story is so as I got into the energy healing, I'd feel energy under my hands and so my hands will go in different directions. And these two stories happen around the same time.
Roxanne Dluzak:
And so I my hands will go in different directions. And then one day I notice my hands going into like this dancing position, like my left hand is up and then my right arm is extended. And I just got to thinking, wow, this is my cousin coming to visit me, because before she passed away, she had told me she had to. I asked her, what's one thing you wish you would have done more of in your life? And she said, I wish I would have danced more. And so once that I had that experience with my hands going into that position, I always knew, like, that's my cousin coming to visit me. And it wasn't just one time that that happened. It's been multiple times. So that's kind of what started me on the mediumship part of energy, healing and working with clients. And it's really like taking off from there. Sometimes it's still quite nerve racking, but because because I really do feel the presence of another being and I turn away from my client and I, I feel the the being's energy right there, almost like you you would you would feel the energy of someone just standing in front of you. So. Yeah, you never know what's going to come up and who's going to come through during a session.
Martika Whylly:
Yeah, that's that's interesting because I've I've had that experience before, but I never really talked about it with anybody else, you know, because it just sounds really strange. Most people, though, have these conversations. But when I for example, when I first moved into this apartment that I'm in, I guess about a week, a couple of weeks, maybe a month into it. And this is it's kind of different. I can smell this perfume. Oh, yeah. Yeah. It was it was very, very pungent. And there was no one in here but me. I didn't spray anything like and it was very in the middle, like it wasn't like somebody, you know, walked by my door like I have like where I am. It's it's the end of the hallway. So anyhow, I don't know where the smell came from. I know it came from somewhere else, not not necessarily the physical realm. But I thought of my my nana. I thought maybe that was her perfume because it smelled very pungent, smell very flowery. You know, something that the older ladies would wear. And and I thought, is my sweet grandmother with me, you know, in this apartment? But, you know, that's what she would do. Like, you get a new place, you come by. You know how Grandy's are right now. This is your new place. And so that's the feeling that I got at that moment. But I haven't smelt it. I don't think after that, like that was the only time, but it was just so pungent. I'm like, OK, this is definitely a presence here. And I wasn't sure if it was her or somebody had passed in that apartment, who knows? Right. But yeah, ever since then, that was a long time ago, too. But yeah, I've have experienced, you know, feeling. But that's just there's only been a few times like not a lot. Not like how you were saying.
Roxanne Dluzak:
Yeah, yeah, it's so interesting, though, it's so fascinating and like they say in the spiritual world, like, you know, you're opening up to your your spiritual abilities and like your spiritual gifts. And so maybe your issues might be more scent oriented than, say, like mine is.
Martika Whylly:
Mm hmm.
Roxanne Dluzak:
And that's that's kind of how my best friend is. She's like, I can just smell the seasons changing and like, I don't smell that.
Martika Whylly:
Yeah, well, yeah, sometimes I smell things. I'm like, OK, is that me or is that something else? You know? So of course I try not to overanalyze it, but if it's something like a perfume and I was very strong and no one's in here but me, that that is something I notice. But I'm pretty sure there's lots of signs that we're not always privy to. Right. It's just that being in the moment and paying attention. But I did have a dream like a while ago. My mom was here in the dream. She was I walked into the living room and she was sitting on the couch and I looked at her. I'm like.
Martika Whylly:
When did you get here? She's looking at me like I've been here, like the whole time and just noticing me, she got that thing and she was happy that I finally noticed her. And I'm like, I felt so bad that I hadn't noticed. So now I'm I try to be as mindful as I can, knowing that she's still with me. Yes.
Roxanne Dluzak:
That's beautiful.
Martika Whylly:
Yeah. She doesn't do the whole light thing flickering of the lights that used to happen. I knew it was her. I told her to cut that out, it freaked me out.
Roxanne Dluzak:
And I said I thought that too. Yeah,
Martika Whylly:
Well, the last time the last time it was in the car and the light, the interior light in the car and it was nighttime as I listened to like dance music, I was on my way to a friend's house. You know, it was a night, night out and, you know, I was car dancing, seat dancing, and the light of the interior kept going on and off like it was a strobe light. It was so cool.
Martika Whylly:
But at the same time, I really didn't want other drivers to see me dancing in the car because they're like she's on something, you know, on something let's pull her over to see what's going on over there. Right. So that was the last time. Cut it out. I know you're with me and I'm having fun. Just kind of. Yeah. So, yeah,
Roxanne Dluzak:
That's great, though.
Martika Whylly:
Yeah. So you talked about also that. You know, your your gifts, I guess, from. Kind of knowing or sensing people on the other side.
Roxanne Dluzak:
Yeah.
Martika Whylly:
How did like when did that start happening? When did you first notice that?
Roxanne Dluzak:
OK, well. I'd say it all kind of came in around the same time, but I, I ended up working with a teacher that she taught me more how to communicate with the other side and how how to kind of like, get down loans and understand them and interpret them. So so right after I got into the energy healing, I had this energy coming from my hands. I had been given to crystals just by random people, one in Scotland, one in New York. And that was like I was like, what's going on? People keep giving me crystals. I have energy under my hands. I'm kind of afraid of it, but I'm so fascinated. So I ended up calling one of my self-defense professor from college and I said I asked him this question because in class he had said, you can feel the same way people feel on drugs without being on drugs. So I asked him, what do you mean by that? And like, why did you say that? Why was that important? So I then asked him about his I'd say he's a pretty spiritual man, pretty connected and really into meditation and that kind of stuff. So that kind of answered my question about why he said that. But then he said, oh, my girlfriend, she does energy healing. You should work with her. And of course, I lost her number right away. And then about a year later, I ended up working with her. I got her number again. I worked with her and she taught me how to understand the messages that I was getting because she said, oh, have you ever just like been in a meditation doing the energy healing? And you get a bunch of thoughts in your head.
Roxanne Dluzak:
And I was like, yes, I had just had that happen. And what happened was it was just like a flood of positive words, just like bam, bam, bam, bam, one after another. I couldn't even think that fast. So I was like, that's weird. Like, I know that's not me. And they were all so positive. And a similar line of words would always come through like peace, hope, faith, charity. Yeah, and yeah, I think that was it, those four, so I'm like, OK, those four keep coming through. And then when I told her that, she was like, OK, yeah, here's how you can. Kind of interpret the messages, you can ask questions, you can ask why or what about this? Like basically it can be kind of more of a dialogue. That's what she taught me. And then through that, I've just applied that through my energy healing sessions. And now when I do my energy healing sessions, I give whatever information I'm getting. So, for instance, I'd give it someone like at the end of our session, I told her a bunch of different things at the end of our session. Makes it. And that's your favorite shirt you're wearing. And then she totally confirmed it. Yeah. This is my weekend warrior shirt like. Well, like, I don't know not, but I know you know.
Martika Whylly:
Yeah, well, that's the sixth sense, it's knowing, isn't it, which we all have. They don't teach that in school, which they should. Yeah, as a little girl, I used to think, why aren't they teaching about dreams and just knowing things that you can't explain? But it was always the same boring subjects, math and English and history and geography and science. Day in, day out. It was nothing about, you know, spiritual healing or dream therapy, you know. Yeah. Like, there's all kinds of there's all kinds of things that they don't teach, but. Yeah. So, yeah. It's interesting, isn't it.
Roxanne Dluzak:
It sounds like you're the teacher now.
Martika Whylly:
Well, I've had that have I've had strange experiences that I haven't been able to some of them explain. So I wouldn't never talk about it because I would just sound crazy to people. So but you know, you start to experience more in meditation, I think is great when you're not sure about something. And the answers come. The universe has a way of kind of guiding you and giving you the answers and letting know you're on the right track. You're not crazy. This is, you know. This, yeah, there's a lot of things happening that we don't see, there's so much going on that we do not see. And, you know, any time I would talk to people about that, you know, they give me the skeptical kind of cynical answer. I would say to them, well, you're breathing air, are you not?
Martika Whylly:
Well, can you see it OK? And so our spirits are all kinds of things going on. And so they just kind of look at me like, oh, and they walk away. But but yeah, it's just, you know, too many unexplained things. And I know my mom is with me.
Martika Whylly:
She she's helping me. So I don't miss her anymore. I like it. I have not grieved her death in a long time, but it took a long time for me to get here grieving for a long time. So this is why I'm doing this, to help other people understand that can't kill energy. We're spiritual beings having a human experience. And once we leave this body, well, I guess I don't you know, we either have a choice to go on to the light, to the other side, to other realms of realities and possibilities, or we could stay in the spirit form on this plane. So I don't know if that's a choice when when it comes to the other side. But, you know, I've talked to people that have near-death experiences that have died and have been in the light and the others that have died. And they were not in the light and they were not in a good place. So that's that's kind of scary to feel for people. That friend of mine, she lost her father suddenly a couple of years ago. And I asked her if she saw him. Did he come to you? And she said, yeah, and.
Martika Whylly:
I asked her, well, we'll see, what was that like, was he OK? And she said, yeah, he said he was OK. He didn't say much. He kind of just nodded and she asked him if.
Martika Whylly:
He had seen God and he said no, but it sounded like he's kind of in the. Still in the physical realm. Even though it's a spirit like he hasn't gone into the light, that's my experience, those that have gone into the light, usually you could feel them, but. I don't know, I think you see God, no.
Roxanne Dluzak:
Now, I don't know, I don't know, I think I read a really interesting book, it's called My Son in the Afterlife, joined by a doctor, and she talks about she's completely atheist before. But then she got into her son, died by suicide, and then she really wanted to communicate with them. And so she started communicating with spirit translators. And so that book really talks a lot about like what it's like to be on the other side and like how if the spirit from the other side wants to come through to Earth, like they need to lower their vibration, people on Earth need to raise their vibration. And and also the spirits can move like like they think or like, I don't know the brains, but they they put the intention of what they want, where they want to go.
Roxanne Dluzak:
And then they just go,
Martika Whylly:
It's super fast.
Roxanne Dluzak:
Teleport around.
Martika Whylly:
Teleport Yeah. Well, I've experienced the like once or twice and I loved it. To me that was the what I would think what God is, because that's all I all I felt was love, pure love. And there was nothing but those yellow goldish color around and there was nothing but this color. Even with me, I would look down. I mean, of course I see a body. But when I looked down in that moment, there was nothing but this yellow golden color. And I knew I had no form and having no form. Nobody was awesome because I didn't have to worry about what I'm wearing. How do I look? You know, I didn't have to worry about eating. It was words can't describe it, the experience. But when I came out of there, I was kind of upset, to put it politely, because it's like being in paradise and somebody saying, oh, you got to go, you've got to go and then you're in hell or something. You know, that's that's not that the world is like hell, but compared to being in that light. Yeah, yeah. It was just it was just so amazing. So, yeah. I don't know. I know. I'm sorry.
Roxanne Dluzak:
I think that ties in a lot of with my questions about why am I alive. Why am I doing this. Why, why are we doing life like I just want to know. I want to understand. And so I love that saying what you said, like we're spiritual beings having an experience or a human experience.
Martika Whylly:
Will we just we just forgot while we're here, because if we remembered why we're here, trust me, we wouldn't be here very long. We all OK, remember this lesson. It only takes you two seconds to recite the ABCs, right. Because we know it.
Martika Whylly:
But if you all of a sudden woke up every day and you've forgotten. Then you'd have to relearn. You have to remember, yeah, or yeah, remember that you forgot. Right.
Roxanne Dluzak:
Spritual amnesia?
Martika Whylly:
Yeah, well, no, I know because I've had conversations with people that have had memories of past life experiences.
Roxanne Dluzak:
Right. Right.
Martika Whylly:
So so when you have a memory and I remember having memories of. Well, was it wasn't a past life experience. It was being in the womb, actually, I was 17 and they kept having this memory of me hearing voices and all I could see was darkness. But I remember hearing voices and it kept coming back and this memory and I don't I didn't know why. And of course, I looked at it because obviously it was something to me at that point I should be looking at it. And then it dawned on me that what that memory was, was being in the womb.
Martika Whylly:
And I remember asking my mom about, you know, when I was a baby, what it was like, you know, her delivering me and she said she thought I was going to be a boy. And I said, why is that? She says, Well, because you kicked like you were going to be a football player. And and. Knowing that and then remembering this memory. And going back and meditating, this is why I love to meditate, because it helps people remember and I remember meditating on it and I remember hearing voices and I was trying to get the attention of the people or whoever was saying, you know, the voices. And I remember kicking me.
Martika Whylly:
Aha. So so that's what it was. I was in the womb. And when I told my friend that of course we were with 16, 17 years old, she goes, no, you can't remember that. That's not possible. And I'm like, well I remembered it. And then of course she never mentioned it to anybody else. It didn't seem that important. And you know, most people thinking, you know, stats will say you start to remember when you were three years old and on like from three and up you can remember, but you can't remember. I don't agree with all of that. I don't
Roxanne Dluzak:
So you are knowing this has proved otherwise.
Martika Whylly:
Yeah, it's not like I remember being actually born, you know, but if I believe if you get into that meditative state and you just really kind of. Go there if you intentionally want to go to that time, you will remember it, but you have to first of all, you have to believe it. And then you have to take the time to this to listen.
Roxanne Dluzak:
Yeah, I think that that reminds me of like probably like your listeners, if you're looking for signs, you have to believe that you'll be able to see one first and then you'll see it. Yeah. Just put that intention out there.
Martika Whylly:
Yeah. Oh, yeah. Belief is the foundation of all things. When I when I am like if I misplace something or not sure about something I'll ask and I might be specific. I might go to my mom, you know, can you help me with this or. A certain angel or just, you know, the higher power or whatever you want to call it.
Roxanne Dluzak:
Yeah.
Martika Whylly:
Then and then just pay attention because it's asking for a door, you know, to leave that one job, to do something else, to do this, you know, have a career, make a career out of living and income. And then guess what they got and received the door.
Roxanne Dluzak:
Yeah, that's beautiful. Yeah, I love it. It sounds like you're raising your vibration to to them. So they have that that door.
Martika Whylly:
Well, it's about vibration, isn't it. The law of attraction is the vibration.
Roxanne Dluzak:
Yeah, so interesting, so, so interesting, I know, I'm just so fascinated, I feel like whenever I read or go to Barnes Noble or try to find a book, I'm like, I just want to know more about the spiritual world and energy and seeing auras and all that kind of stuff.
Martika Whylly:
Mm hmm. Yeah.
Martika Whylly:
So what what else do you do with your your hands, with your healing, like now if somebody was in, I guess, depressed or anxious or. Angry how how would how would that an energy feel healing help?
Roxanne Dluzak:
Yeah, so. With my hands, I do like a clearing motion, so I normally do a clearing motion at some point during my session and then I normally feel that the vibration or feel the energy. Sometimes it's very heavy. Sometimes it's very light. Kind of depends sometimes. My hands are all the way out stretch sometimes right next to the client. I do most things without touching them, but I think it's really whatever that person is open to believes that they can have and they deserve. And then also just this, like I think I find it just like a feeling of like lightness and freshness. And it's like I can I can talk on behalf of myself how it feels for me when I feel those emotions. But I just yeah, I feel light. I feel at peace. It's such a beautiful, calming feeling.
Roxanne Dluzak:
So to me as an occupational therapy student, that's also touching on the nervous system. So it's calming the nervous system, calming the fight or flight response, promoting healing because your brain is near your brain. Is it actively having to focus on a task? But it can go in other like the brain wave length states.
Roxanne Dluzak:
I was just listening to a podcast about like Beta, Theta, Gamma, and they're saying how Gamma is like the most healing. I always thought it was theta before. But anyways, yeah, those are more, I guess, my experiences. But I think for my clients, it's it's it's up to them and this is all about them and they're healing. And I'm hoping one day I can see I'll be able to see energy and I'll be able to kind of understand, like, OK, am I working more in a chakra or am I working more just like with their overall their overall aura? And I do get messages and I do have an understanding about where I am, but it's not like a visual thing. I think that's something that'll come in time when I'm less afraid of it, because there's a part of me that's still afraid to.
Martika Whylly:
You'll get over that fear eventually. Yeah. So let's say somebody has lost somebody and they really want to communicate with them. How would they go about that? Like. What would what would they do or?
Roxanne Dluzak:
In terms of independently or working with me?
Martika Whylly:
Well, both.
Roxanne Dluzak:
OK, so I think independently, you know, you had a loved one passed away, I would say put out that intention for a sign and to feel the connection. You can ask you can be really specific and say like. You know, something about a memory that only you and that person had and ask for that validation for them to come through.
Roxanne Dluzak:
I know a lot of people see like angel numbers or coins or feathers or animals or see certain animals.
Roxanne Dluzak:
So, yeah, asking for those signs. And then also like looking at pictures how like on the Instagram not Instagram, on the the iPhones, they have it as live so you can hold it down and then you can see that picture for a couple of seconds. So maybe like looking for orbs or like rainbows and pictures. I've also in that book, My Son in the Afterlife, she talks a lot about, like messing with electronics. I've heard that messing with lights, like you said. Yeah. Those are all the all the things I can think of just independently. And then also just, you know, having that time where you pray and you meditate and you kind of tap into your own spiritual gifts as long as you have the willingness, I think I think it'll come because we are spiritual beings. I don't think, you know, like like you said, oh, I've had those experiences, too. It's like, yeah, it's not just unique to me or you, but I think it's the whole world can experience these things. And then as for working with me, I just go with whatever comes up, whatever is coming through for you, I try my best not to judge and not to say like that's important or that is important. Like that is or it isn't important. I'm just like I just want to be a vessel so that you can feel everything that God is wanting you to feel that you want to feel that your loved ones want you to feel without me being like you shouldn't feel that way because we already get enough shoulds in this world.
Martika Whylly:
That's right through. I am so thankful for you, Roxanne, for sharing where where can people reach you if they want to know more or if they want to work with you?
Roxanne Dluzak:
Yeah. So I'm in the process right now of transitioning from this, just being like a side gig to something that I want to pursue more as a business so you can contact me through my email address. We can put it in the show notes and then I'll be starting a website or landing page soon as well. But for now, we'll just go with with my email.
Martika Whylly:
That's awesome. I really do appreciate your your time and your information. I'm sure that'll be very helpful. I know it helped me. At least now I know another go too, right? Yeah. I can call you up.
Martika Whylly:
I need help. Thank you so much, Roxanne. They really appreciate it. Thank you.
Roxanne Dluzak:
Yeah, you're welcome. Thank you for having me. And I really hope it just provides that that connection. My my answers have provided that connection for the spiritual realm and to the loved ones that your listeners are missing so dearly.
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